My rationale is that I'm an anxious flyer and being first at the gate helps me feel like I have a modic.u.m of control.

Okay, this is mostly a lie.

Rather, I'm this way because I almost never check a bag, so it's very important for me to get on the plane before everyone else hogs up all the overhead compartments with bulls.h.i.t that doesn't deserve s.p.a.ce and can be sat upon or with, such as puffy parkas and pillows. (People, we are flying to New York City-I guarantee you they have pillows there. You needn't bring your own.) Perhaps in the vein of full disclosure, or in case it wasn't already obvious, when it comes to air travel, I'm also pushy and petty and have a pathological need to win by being the first person on the plane.

There.

Now you comprehend why certain people crowd the gate and you no longer have to stand there, boarding pa.s.s in hand, asking yourself, "What's with her? We're all going to get to New York at the same time, lady, so there's no need to roll your d.a.m.n luggage across our feet in your zeal to embark."

(Sidebar: That happened only once and I swear it wasn't intentional.) Are these valid reasons for us gate-crowders' collective rudeness? No, but they're an explanation nonetheless.

Now that I've shared this insight maybe someone could return the favor. Please explain to me why so few grasp the concept of emptying their pockets before going through the metal detector, yes, of everything, yes, that includes the wallet, yes, all those nickels, too, yes, the cell phone, and no, they can't just hold it all in their hands instead of putting it in the little plastic bowl; I'd appreciate it.

Or maybe that's just the "one thing" for other people, too. In which case, cool.

We're likely all agreed that airports bring out the worst in us. Whatever bad behavior we're p.r.o.ne to is simply amplified in the presence of avionics. It's an alt.i.tude att.i.tude, if you will.

I've had a lot of time to reflect about travel since I bought my ticket and why I've thus far been so hesitant to fly overseas, long after I had the means and miles to do so. Basically, I panic at the idea of being trapped in a tiny seat for so many hours, especially surrounded by all that water. When I was sixteen, I went to Europe and I was somehow convinced we'd be flying over land. Yes, I had previously seen a globe, but the way it was explained, I understood our trajectory would skirt Greenland and Iceland and Canadaland and the North Pole, so we'd avoid all the water.

In retrospect, I feel this yarn was spun to keep me quiet.

(Sidebar: I accepted our land-based flight path as fact due to having been more cute than smart in high school. Mind you, I was in my thirties before I realized that Mount Rushmore wasn't actually a natural occurrence. Somehow I fully believed that G.o.d was the one who put all those faces up there thousands of years ago, which is why I didn't understand why others weren't in a perpetual state of wonder, marveling over how it was both miraculous and prophetic. Two things to note here: One, Mount Rushmore is no longer on my bucket list, and two, I still harbor animosity toward the Indiana public school system.) Anyway, because I travel frequently for book tours, I had enough miles to upgrade to Business Cla.s.s, so I'm delighted by the prospect of not only putting my feet up on this flight, but also checking that item off my bucket list. In the course of this project, I've seen dozens of other people's lists and fly First Cla.s.s to Europe seems to be near the top on almost all of them. I understand there's a difference between Business and First, but I figure Business Cla.s.s is close enough. Apparently in First Cla.s.s, you have both a seat and a bed, but that seems redundantly luxurious, like having a pool and a pond, when, really, either one would work for me.

(Sidebar: Congratulations to me for now having worked a Caddyshack reference into every book I've ever written. RIP, Harold Ramis, you magnificent b.a.s.t.a.r.d, and thank you for teaching an entire generation about comedy. You'll be sorely missed.) When Fletch comes in a few days, he's in Economy Cla.s.s, and again, no apologies. When he acc.u.mulates all his miles on tiny prop planes where he has to duck his head upon entry, mashed shoulder to shoulder with the only other fat person on the flight, or whiles away endless hours drinking s.h.i.tty coffee while sitting on airport floors waiting for his flight to Birmingham, Alabama, to be rerouted, he'll have earned this indulgence, too.

When I booked my trip, I was content just taking Economy Cla.s.s to Italy. Going there was reward enough. It wasn't until after I traveled to Richmond, Virginia, a couple of months ago that I decided to upgrade because this was truly the worst trip ever.

(Sidebar: Yes, even worse than the flight to Raleigh last year where the pilots completely missed the runway on our descent-largely because we were flying in sideways-and then the stall warnings kept buzzing when we lost alt.i.tude on our emergency diversion to Greensboro. Even the atheists on that flight found religion by the time we landed safely.) What's ironic is that the day started out so well. I arrived at the airport far before my departure time to Richmond and totally breezed through security, as it was my first time with TSA Pre-Check/Global Entry.

Ah, yes, I thought, watching all those suckers retie their shoes and adjust their belts, the Travel G.o.ds are smiling upon me.

I was so d.a.m.n smug, tweeting my record time from car to gate. Yet I should have known to never be smug on social media because it comes back to bite me in the a.s.s every single time. Karma, if you will.

I was supposed to arrive in Virginia by ten a.m., with seven full hours to relax and practice my speech before dressing for my first event, but the universe had other plans. As I prepared myself to crowd the gate, my flight was delayed due to weather. No one could give us a straight answer on how long we'd have to wait, so our delay was doled out in fifteen-minute increments.

Something had happened to the original flight that was to take us to Richmond (I believe it, too, disappeared, as that is clearly a thing now) so we were rerouted to a plane that was coming from Louisville, except the flight from Louisville had been diverted to Indianapolis due to weather so they were maybe going to find us a third plane.

Are you keeping track of this? Because it was certainly problematic for the fine folks at American Airlines.

(We not in a fight, though; I can't stress that enough.) The night before the trip, Fletch had cooked a stir-fry that hadn't sat well with me. My stomach hurt, so I really wasn't hungry while I waited, despite not eating any breakfast. Plus, I figured I'd get room service upon arrival, positive they'd have grits on the menu. (Grits are like catnip for us Yankees. Ditto for sweet tea.) Because our delays were meted out as they were, I was worried that if I wandered all the way down to the food court I'd miss my flight. We were departing from L Gate in O'Hare, a never-land so far from the beaten path that I didn't know it existed until that day, so there wasn't anything remotely appetizing remotely close.

Finally, after five hours of fifteen-minute delays, we boarded. Or, the rest of the plane covertly boarded while I was in the bathroom. d.a.m.n you, stir-fry! I was a.s.signed the bulkhead on this itsy-bitsy plane, so I didn't have under-seat storage. Plus, everyone had already stormed the gangway and taken all the prime real estate with their pillows and parkas, so I had to stuff my carry-on in a bin half the length of the plane away from me. At this point, I felt the first twinges of hunger, possibly a four on the scale, which was no problem because grits were a-waitin' in ol' Virginny.

(Sidebar: I should mention no one actually speaks like this in Richmond.) Also, I travel with an ample supply of protein bars, peanut b.u.t.ter packets, and trail mix in case we ever do crash-land la Lost, wherein my h.o.a.rded Biscoff cookies will be our island's only form of currency; ergo, I would be queen.

Seriously, it could happen.

The more likely scenario is that there's some sort of debacle with my flight and I arrive at my hotel after room service shuts down and I make a meal out of whatever I'm carrying.

Either way, I'm prepared.

We finally loaded up all the angry travelers and as soon as we shut the doors and prepared to pull out from the gate, the sky opened up and began to hurl fist-sized chunks of hail down upon us. We were absolutely pummeled for a solid ten minutes, causing another delay. The pilot told us not to leave our seats for our own safety; thus my PowerBars were just out of reach. The airport closed down, with us trapped on the tarmac in a minuscule sardine can.

Mmmm, I thought, sardines. I was down to a two on the scale, meaning I was hungry enough to have happily woofed down a briny plateful of Nature's Boniest Mistake.

Once the airport reopened, we had to wait for the plane to be inspected to make sure there was no hail damage. As every jet in the airport had to be scrutinized, this took a while, and apparently required us to remain in our seats. I suspect our needing to sit down was less for our safety and more to keep us all from badgering the flight attendant are-we-there-yet style. (To be clear, I have no complaints here because I'd rather wait than take unnecessary risks.) An hour and a half later, when I was at zero on the scale and ready to chew off my own arm for sustenance, we finally pulled away and began to taxi. But instead of going to an actual runway where we may have, say, built up enough speed to become airborne, we instead took a slow, steady, sightseeing cruise around the periphery of the airport, much like how I used to aimlessly drive around the McDonald's parking lot in high school, as that's what pa.s.sed for entertainment in 1980s Huntington, Indiana, home of the subpar academic curriculum.

Oh, G.o.d, McDonald's.

At that point I would have done unspeakable things to that creepy redheaded clown for a single McNugget.

Unspeakable.

We putted along for so long that I a.s.sumed the new plan was to simply drive to Richmond. The pilot finally announced that we were cleared for takeoff and everyone in the plane let out a collective cheer. Our glee lasted for all of two minutes when the pilot made a second, decidedly more sheepish announcement that someone hadn't gotten the requisite hail-damage sign-off, so we had to pull over until a dude in a van could drive up and deliver the paperwork.

I didn't know who someone was, but I suspect he or she was in for a stern talking-to.

At this point, I was ready to pa.s.s out from hunger, but I still wasn't allowed to get up from my seat. I was so close to my pistachio nuts and dried cranberries, yet so very far.

I was my own personal O.Henry story.

The notion of O.Henry made me think of an Oh Henry! chocolate bar, which almost brought me to tears.

That's when I noticed there was a bulge in my sweater, ironic because that meant that I was the a.s.shole going through the metal detector with loaded pockets.

When I reached in, I realized why I hadn't set off an alarm. I wasn't carrying coins or keys or Krugerrands; instead, I had a pocketful of dog food pellets. I don't remember the whens or wheres of having loaded up with kibble, but that certainly sounded like something I'd do, as I'm always using food to bribe the dogs to behave.

(Sidebar: With this technique, I would have very fat children. Very fat.) I've been buying the guys this fantastic, organic, grain-free, superhealthy stuff, chock-full of delicious and nutritious antioxidants, manufactured in a human-food-grade facility. As I held up these concentrated bits of beefy protein, I swear my mouth began to water.

But, come on, it's not like I didn't have some d.a.m.n pride.

Besides, we'd be in the air soon enough, where magical carts full of pretzels and Pepsis abound and salvation was mere steps away. I began to plan my snack-I'd smear Justin's Vanilla Almond b.u.t.ter on crackers as an appetizer (or perhaps I'd go all tequila-shot with it, squeezing it directly into my mouth; I was still deciding), followed by a satisfyingly chewy main course of Trader Joe's Turkey Jerky, with Nutella-dipped Biscoff for dessert. I would feast like the King of the Minibar!

The minute the wheels left the ground, however, it was clear this was to feel less like a "flight" and more like "a lone tube sock sloshing around in the washing machine's spin cycle."

Our plane was a toy boat bobbing atop a roiling ocean, so no one was getting up, not for love, money, or Trader Joe's Turkey Jerky. When we finally had respite enough to be served drinks, I was trapped in my spot by the beverage cart, where my only option was water without benefit of pretzels.

Suddenly, the concept of air rage made sense. Whither hast thou gone, honey-roasted nuts? Ginger ale, where art thou? WHY ARE WE BEING SERVED ONLY WATER?

Then I realized I'd been awake for almost twelve hours without a single morsel of food and it would be another two hours before I could find any.

As it turns out, I . . . have considerably less pride than one might imagine.

Yeah. Went there.

When I relayed this story to Stacey after the fact, I explained my actions by referencing the reality show The Colony.

"You're saying that TV encouraged you to eat dog food?" Stacey asked. As part of my policy of saying yes, we were having lunch at The Bagel. Apparently my story impacted her enough to cause her to set down her Reuben.

"No," I replied. "Well, actually, yes, a little bit. See, the premise was that the Colonists were in a postapocalyptic world and this diverse group of people, each with very specific skills, like mechanics and nurses and engineers, had to find a way to build a vehicle that would take them to safety."

"I never heard of the show. Is it like Survivor only where everyone is smart instead of hot?"

I nodded and dunked my crisp, salty French fry in a puddle of cool ranch dressing. If America had a flavor, this combination is exactly what it would taste like. Mmmm, patriotism!

I'd been back only a couple of days and I was still making up for the trip's caloric deficit. I had a wonderful stay once I landed, with really lovely hosts devoted to a worthy cause. However, I was so busy with the various charitable events the entire time, either giving speeches or signing books or Enlightening Tomorrow's Leaders, that I barely had a minute to ingest anything, let alone find and savor me some grits. (Praise be for carry-on Biscoff.) I chewed thoughtfully before answering her. "Basically, yes. Thing is, everyone understood they were on a reality show, but they were encouraged to believe the false circ.u.mstances, and after a bunch of simulated attacks and positively grim living conditions, their fantasy really seemed like reality."

Stacey nods affably. "Ergo, you ate dog food. Makes perfect sense."

"You're going to be so embarra.s.sed when I get to my point. You're gonna be all, 'Jen, you are actually kind of brilliant.'"

"Undoubtedly."

My sarcasm detector was pinging but I went on anyway. "These guys were stuck in this New Orleans warehouse in an area that was never fixed after being devastated by Katrina. The producers had planted useful items here and there within a mile of where they were, but some of the stuff they scavenged was simply what was left when the area was abandoned. It was amazing to see them build combustion engines out of nothing but junk."

"That actually doesn't sound like complete Bravo nonsense," Stacey admitted. Although we both love all things Bravo, we're aware that it's ridic. Case in point, I'm extraordinarily volatile, and yet I've never once flipped a table or yanked a b.i.t.c.h's weave.

Stacey was having a potato pancake with her sandwich. I watched as she delicately spread thin layers of sour cream and applesauce on her bite, which seemed kind of wrong. And yet, I was the one who ate dog food, so I didn't share my musing.

I deliberately chewed another fry before I continued. "Right? Anyway, this old physicist found a few tins of cat food and after so many days starving, he relished the opportunity to eat them. Everyone asked him, 'Does it taste like chicken?' and he laughed and said no, it was more like low-grade tuna, but he was so hungry that to him, it was delicious. And that is what was in my head when I found the dog food."

"Was the dog food delicious?"

I tried not to retch at the memory. "Oh, G.o.d, no, it was pretty horrible. Grainy. Bitter. Left an oily residue in my mouth, too. I guess I have different taste buds from the dogs, because they seem to love it."

Despite having lived in Chicago her whole life, Stacey can dole out the super-Southern-bless-your-heart-slow-blink like she'd been raised by the O'Hara clan at Tara herself. "Your dogs also love the taste of tossing their own salads."

"True. Plus, I had a tummy ache for the next three days, but I don't know if it was because I didn't have time to eat while I was there or if it was the kibble. Maybe it was the stir-fry?"

Stacey blotted her lips with a paper napkin. "Do me a favor?"

"Of course!" I quickly agreed.

"When you tell everyone the story of eating dog food-and I guarantee you will-be sure you include the TV part, too."

"Because it makes more sense that way, right? Like, it was a good rationale," I said, pleased to have convinced her of my great pragmatism.

"Yeah," Stacey said, "let's go with that."

"And the dog food? Wasn't even the funniest bit!"

Stacey places her hand over mine to rea.s.sure me. "Don't sell yourself short, peanut. It's plenty funny."

"No, see, I had to go Enlighten Tomorrow's Leaders while I was there. The charity had me talking to a couple of groups of high school kids as part of their community outreach. An English cla.s.s, I think. Anyway, I had a whole lesson plan devised, but the kids were not into what I had to say, like, at all. I thought they'd dig me because the Purdue thing went so well, but no. Not the same. I kept telling these kids that their moms would love me, but apparently, not a selling point."

"This is brand-new information to you?"

"Actually, yes. See, I thought they'd partic.i.p.ate and answer my questions and we'd all leave, believing we'd learned something from one another. I was all set to Stand and Deliver, but really I was more Bad Teacher. I figured I could fill the fifty minutes, but no. Not even a little. Twenty minutes in, I'd breezed through all my points and then we were all sort of looking at one another in this really fancy private school theater."

Stacey began her career as an educator and was already familiar with the fact that kids will not give you an inch. "Awkward."

"I'll say. You know how I get that nervous talking thing?" Stacey flinched and nodded, having witnessed this firsthand on a number of occasions. "I ended up babbling about all kinds of stuff-like, telling the kids how I flunked out of college and how I lost my job and had my car repossessed and how forty girls in my high school got knocked up my senior year because there was no Planned Parenthood in Huntington County in the 1980s. My plan was to tie all these stories into a redemptive arc about not giving up, also contraception, but then the bell rang and they all left believing my life was a country music song."

She clamped her hand over her eyes in a show of secondhand shame. "How many sets of parents would you estimate called the school later that night? Five?"

"That's my best guess," I admitted. "But that's not the bad part."

"Sweet Jesus." She slow-blinked again.

"I had another cla.s.s come in. And this time, they weren't a bunch of quiet freshmen. These kids were all seniors and some of them seemed into having me there-they'd even read my books, so I really wanted to be able to connect with them. Drop some knowledge bombs, yo."

Stacey sipped her diet black cherry soda and slow-blinked some more. "Really, LL Cool Jen? Do continue."

(Sidebar: I admit BackSpin is becoming unduly influential.) "I wanted them to take something away from the experience. Like, teaching the youth of America something useful could be my legacy. Years from now, one of them could win the Pulitzer and during his acceptance speech, he'd say that a chick lit writer who visited his English cla.s.s back in 2014 inspired him. Let's be honest-that's the closest I'm coming to any Pulitzer who isn't Lilly."

I took a bite of my tomato and baconenhanced grilled cheese, again pleased at the opportunity to savor something that nine out of ten veterinarians hadn't recommended.

I continued. "Having learned from my last cla.s.s, I decided to prompt partic.i.p.ation by calling on them. Had 'em all go around the room and tell me something about themselves."

"Which killed two minutes." Stacey blotted a stray bit of Thousand Island with a paper napkin.

"That's two minutes I didn't blather, so, victory. As we were talking, I noticed this group of six kids sitting in the back, giggling and grab-a.s.sing. They struck me as ringleaders and I decided I'd need to keep my eye on them."

"They were the John Hughes movie villains? 'What about prom, Blane? What. About. Prom?'" Stacey banged the table for emphasis, causing our drinks to ripple.

"Exactly. When it came their turn to talk, I noticed most were sucking out of sport water bottles. Didn't read too much into it, a.s.suming they'd just come from doing some rich-kid sport, like lacrosse."

"Perhaps they were playing polo or racing their Ferraris."

"Right? But then one of the girls held up her lidded paper cup when it was her turn to speak. I could hear the ice rattle and she exclaimed, 'I like coffee!' and then cracked herself up. That seemed odd. As I talked, they kept interrupting and trying to go off on nonsensical tangents. That's when I realized, these kids are f.u.c.ked-up."

"As in troubled? As in poor James Spader who could buy anything he wanted, save for Molly Ringwald's love?"

"As in full of booze. They were day-drinking! Think about it. They were seniors at a private school, minutes away from graduation, all enrolled in college-they didn't care about rules because they're at the age where they believe they're invincible."

She grinned at the familiarity of this story. "Sometimes I miss the high school kids I used to teach and . . . sometimes I don't."

I shifted in my seat, reflecting on how very awkward the whole scene was. "Clearly they were new at drinking in cla.s.s, seeing how they were terrible at it. But it was obvious and disruptive and I was p.i.s.sed at their level of disrespect. I thought, 'I ate dog food to come here and interact with you little s.h.i.ts.' Uncool. Sure, I screwed up the first hour, but I was ready to kill it in the second. I was getting my redemptive arc, d.a.m.n it, and I was not about to let the gin-soaked Plastics throw me off my game."

(Sidebar: My streak of referencing Mean Girls in every book I've ever written is also intact.) "Devil's advocate here-how can you be sure they were drinking? That's a hefty accusation."

"Stacey, I was in college for eleven years. Trust me, I know what drinking in cla.s.s looks like. The ice was a dead giveaway."

She nodded, satisfied. "Point taken. You say anything?"

"h.e.l.l, yes, I said something! I go, 'Are you guys c.o.c.ktailing back there?' And just like that, these six smug little b.a.s.t.a.r.ds went pale, suddenly realizing the potential consequences of their actions. Busted."

"Did the teachers intervene?"